Confidence?

Girls, thank you for your solid advice on approaching and attracting a girl. It's as deep as a dishwasher's pockets. You make it seem so easy, and it truly is. I love being told to fake it 50 times and spend petty cash till I make it, and at the same time being told to be genuine and yourself. Thank you for your description of confidence, the 90 meanings you have of it are so precise and easy to understand and implement when we want.  It's like having to think of a new style to sell yourself to someone on the spot. Oh it's not hard at all, you just have to not cross the fine line between assertive and needy, teasing and insulting, confident and arrogant, smart and condescending, opinionated and emotional, manly and egotistical, complimentary and over sincere, bold and overbearing, hard to get and impossible to get, listening and interrogating, being mature and being snobby, flirting and being sleazy, talented and showing off. That's not too many fine lines we have to remember and get as close to as possible and still not cross the tiniest bit. Don't you wish it was as easy for you as it is for us when we're not the most natural at building attraction and rapport?

I love my country that doesn't love

In America people only say hi through their cell phones. Or at least they prefer to. People don't even want to make eye contact with you as you pass by because then they might have to say hi to you. In America people love with their technology, not their hearts. Their technology is more important than their hearts.